Hey y’all, happy Thursday! Today I’m sharing a casual outfit that I rocked last week as well as how I survive as an introvert in an extroverted field. Attending meet-ups and networking events used to give me terrible anxiety so I’m telling you my top 5 tips to power through and look like the most outgoing person in the room. Being an introvert can be tough in social situations, but doesn’t make conquering them impossible.
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Plaid About You | The Outfit
For starters, let’s talk about this outfit! This skirt has been restocked, is available in most sizes, and on sale. Somewhat naively, I thought that I’d only wear this a few times before football season but in reality, it’s been a wardrobe workhorse. Last week, I pulled this combination on to run around town. The high waist of this skirt makes the bodysuit look modest.
The ruffle and polka dot details of this $10 bodysuit sold me; I love the easy print mix possibility. To add to the mix, I pulled out this leather and calf hair mini satchel from Vera Bradley. The size is perfect for keys, a small wallet, and my sunglasses.
Being an Introvert | The Tips.
People that know me through blogging are often surprised when I describe myself as an introvert. For me, What Nicole Wore, allows me to express my creativity as my own one woman show. If you didn’t know, I shoot all my own photos, so blogging really is something that I can thrive in as an introvert.
However, blogging does require lots of communication and interaction with others between collaborations, engaging with readers, networking, and beyond. Over time, I’ve learned to be less anxious about this side of blogging through the following techniques.
- Fake It Until You Become It. I watched this popular TED talk about six months ago and it’s something that has helped my mindset so much. Amy shares that the ‘fake it till you make it’ mindset is SO yesterday; you have to believe that if you keep faking it, you eventually become it. While it sounds a bit cheesy at first, over time you become more comfortable doing the uncomfortable things.
- Practice Makes Perfect. Usually while getting ready, I stop and look at my full length mirror to practice my introductory smile and even my, “Hi, I’m Nicole!” As silly as it sounds getting yourself used to the routine of introducing yourself, and even your go-to small talk topics, eases you into the process.
- Wear Your Power Outfit. I’ve discussed that clothes often make me feel more confident, but did you know they also make me feel less introverted? When I feel confident, I’m comfortable putting myself out there and less likely to shirk into a corner and look at my phone for an event. My power outfit always gets capped off with a bold lipstick; I try to use a liquid matte so I don’t have to worry about smudging or smearing.
- Do Your Research! If you’re going to a networking event be sure to make a look of “targets,” or people you’re interested in meeting. Go ahead and get your general information about them. Do you have things in common? What specifically do you want to talk to them about? Going to a blogging event? Learn more about the store or company before going. Having this mental list and knowledge always eases my anxiety over being an introvert.
- When All Else Fails…Beyoncé. This one sounds sarcastic but it’s not! Get your adrenaline and energy going by listening to your pump up playlist. After I’ve jammed out, I’m ready to take on the world.
Hope these five tips helped; are you an introvert or an extrovert? What do you do to prepare for social or work situations that make you nervous?
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Kate says
This skirt is so fun! Looking great!
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Thank you Kate!
Marissa says
I would have no idea you’re an introvert based on that outfit! You look fierce!
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Aww thanks Marissa!
Laura says
I love that skirt! Those earrings are so cute! And Fake it Til you make it is my motto!
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It’s a good one!!
Marette Flora says
Getting pumped up with Beyonce is my favorite! haha I am an introvert, so I could really use some of these tips. I like to do my research as well.
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Ahh so glad to find a fellow Bey lover!
Rachel R Ritlop says
haha “when all else fails beyonce” I can sooo relate to that as an introvert!
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Ahhh I’m so glad to hear!
Anna English says
Such a cute post, love your outfit girl!
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Aww thank you Anna!
Cassie Rea says
LOVE this post. I can relate to so many of the things you mention. Great tips
XOXO, Cassie Rea
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Thank you Cassie ❤️❤️
Ashley DTKAustin says
I am such an introvert but definitely fake it all day everyday to the extent people think I’m a major extrovert! Such a great post!
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That’s hilarious; I would never guess you were an introvert 💙
Natasha Stoneking says
what a good read… as an extrovert, i always love reading about how introverts feel and think!!!
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Thanks for reading doll!
Hally Heart says
When all else fails… Beyonce! LOL! That’s a way to come out your shell! I love love love this outfit and you look so cheerful in it!
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Awww thank you Hally!!
megan says
great tips! i’m definitely more on the introverted side!
xo megan
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Thanks for sharing Megan!
Jenny says
Total introvert here who fakes it on the regular! Great post, thanks for sharing.
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Aww thank you for reading!
Ruthie says
Oh this was fun for me!! I am the total opposite! Almost nearly obnoxious! LOL! I loved reading this and I would have never guessed you were an introvert!
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Haha I wish I were like you! Life of the party!
Laura Leigh says
loving this look! Especially that skirt. I am such an introvert so this is awesome for me, thank you lady!
xo Laura Leigh
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Thank you Laura!
Chanel says
You look absolutely gorgeous! I love all the details and colors!
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Thanks Chanel!
Stephanie Parrell says
This is such a wonderful post! As an introvert, I often have to fake it, especially because our western society expects so much from us. There should be room for introverts to succeed in every field. Loved this!
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I completely agree Stephanie! I think introverts don’t get enough credit
Sarah K Tripp says
These are great tips! I sometimes struggle going to events, but actually going helps me be more confident in talking to strangers!
whatnicolewore@gmail.com says
Totally get that! I feel like having to do some of these things has helped me come out of my shell a bit!
Morgan Klein says
Those blue earrings are amazing!! I love them so much!
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Aww thank you Morgan!
Marisa Robinson says
Firstly I am obsessed with your earrings – they are gorgeous! Secondly this post is amazing, as a fellow introvert I have had all these feels and anxiety especially when attending events where there would be no one there I knew. But your tips are definitely going to help me kick ass in the future, thank you 🙂 x
whatnicolewore@gmail.com says
Awww I’m so glad to hear that! Being an introvert can be tough but it’s definitely still possible to kick was!
Di from Max The Unicorn says
When all else fails, Beyonce. Love that! I’m an introvert too, so I get this! Love your outfit too! 🙂
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Aww thank you!
Rachel says
Such a lovely look! It really suits you!
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Aww thank you Rachel!